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How to deal with pressure from parents, teachers and friends

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The exam season can bring not only the challenge of revising and performing well but also the weight of expectations from those around you. Navigating these pressures can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. That's why we've put together this blog post to help you deal with expectations from parents, teachers, and friends, and advocate for your needs. Let's explore how you can handle these pressures and maintain your well-being during the exam season.

Understanding External Pressures - How to deal with pressure from parents, teachers and friends

Expectations and pressures can come from various sources - parents hoping for high grades, teachers pushing for excellent class performance, or friends creating a competitive environment. While these pressures are often well-intentioned, they can add to the stress of exam season and even hinder your performance.

Strategies to Manage Expectations and Advocate for Yourself

1. Open Communication: Speak openly with your parents, teachers, and friends about your feelings. Express your concerns and anxieties, and let them know how their expectations are affecting you.

2. Set Realistic Goals: It's important to set achievable goals based on your abilities and past performance. Sharing these goals with others can help manage their expectations and reduce pressure.

3. Seek Support: If you're struggling with the pressure, reach out to a trusted adult or school counsellor. They can provide advice, support, and intervention if needed.

4. Self-Care: During this time, it's essential to take care of your physical and mental health. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, and adequate sleep can help you manage stress and maintain your well-being.

5. Practice Assertiveness: It's okay to say no when you're feeling overwhelmed. Learn to assert your needs respectfully and effectively.

6. Focus on the Process, Not Just the Outcome: Instead of fixating on the final grade, focus on your effort, improvement, and the knowledge you're gaining. This can help alleviate some of the pressure you might be feeling.

7. Create a Balanced Study Schedule: Ensure your schedule includes breaks, time for relaxation, and activities you enjoy. Sharing this schedule with parents and teachers can help them understand that you're taking a balanced approach to your studies.

8. Celebrate Your Achievements: No matter how small they may seem, celebrating your accomplishments can help boost your confidence and reinforce your ability to meet expectations.

Remember, it's your exam journey, and while it's essential to listen to the advice of those around you, it's equally important to listen to yourself and your needs. We hope this blog will provide useful tips on how to deal with pressure from parents, teachers and friends. Handling external pressures is a skill that will not only help you during exam season but throughout life. Stay strong, communicate openly, and remember, your worth is not defined by an exam grade.

If you need support or guidance with your revision or exam preparation, please get in touch and one of our education experts will be able to help.



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